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Monday, February 13, 2012

29 Things

Steve turned 29 yesterday. T'was a fantastic day.

Here are 29 things that you need to know about Steve (for posterity's sake). Some things you may already know, others may surprise you, but here we go:


1) Supreme dish washer. He was THE dishwasher (literally) in Scotland, but he has become a master at utilizing the machine version to its utmost capacity.



2) Habitual journal writer. Every day, folks - every day! He keeps a record of the big things, little things, and seemingly inconsequential things that will probably make a lot of people laugh at some point in the future.



3) Indifferent towards technology. He doesn't obsess over the latest and greatest technological product/upgrade. He uses a cell phone to call/text me regularly. He uses a computer for papers and emails. And that's enough.


4) User of public transportation. Even though we have two cars at our disposal, he still prefers taking the bus to school (mostly because he likes reading books and not worrying about traffic).


5) Loves to shop...at the library. I frequently hear him say, "I went on a shopping spree today! Guess what I found?" I won't go into the details, but if you were to take a peek at our bookshelf, you'd learn the answer. Free and fulfilling - and you can even "shop" online (Steve requests books like a maniac and has them delivered to the public library nearby).



6) Avid recycler. This started in Taiwan and hasn't stopped since. Our recycling pile intimidates our trash pile on any given day.


7) Insanely lucky. This one occasionally drives me crazy, but it's just part of who Steve is. I do not know how to explain it, but Steve is so lucky - especially at games! He's good at skill/strategy games, but at games where it's pure luck, he still manages to crush the competition (yours truly) on a regular basis.


8) Prompt un-packer. Within ten minutes of arriving home from any vacation, Steve is unpacked and organized. Let's just say that we're polar opposites in this regard...


9) Racquetballer. He loves to play racquetball, and while I've never played against him, I hear he's pretty good for a white guy.


10) Doesn't eat fruit. Let me be more clear - Steve doesn't eat citrus fruits, and avoids them like the plague. I'm totally cool with that - more pineapple for the Mrs.



11) Doesn't eat ice cream. Again, for clarification, Steve doesn't eat ice cream as much. Not gonna lie, I was stunned when I realized how much he loves ice cream while we were dating. I remember going through his freezer one day and pulling out 9 different containers of ice cream! He still makes a killer frozen concoction when he really feels like it, but it doesn't happen all that often anymore.



12) Traveler extraordinaire. He loves to travel, even if it means we change plans at the last minute due to bad weather, and become visitors in our own city. He loves to explore and see new people, places, and things.



13) Sweet tooth for cinnamon gummy bears. While living in Scotland, we requested a care package from my sister when we met up with my family in Europe and all that we asked for was as many cinnamon gummy bears as could reasonably be brought across the pond. Steve was in heaven while they lasted.




14) Thai food addict. Thai green curry is his favorite. When we move to a new place, one of the first must-find spots is a good Thai joint.



15) Possessor of random trivia. We attend trivia night every other Thursday, and it's always the random questions that you'd think everyone would know (but we don't) where Steve's knowledge pays off. One of the benefits of being married to a walking non-fiction-loving encyclopedia. For example - off the top of your head, can you name the 48th state to join the Union? Steve can (and did) without even thinking about it.



16) Teachable. He is never too proud to admit mistakes, learn from the past, pick himself up and improve.



17) Self-entertaining. I don't really know how to describe this aspect, but basically, Steve doesn't watch TV. We've never had one since being married, and I don't know if that will change any time soon. Correction: we have a TV, but it is currently sitting in our basement collecting dust. He finds ample ways to enjoy his time without sitting in front of the tube.


18) Loves The New Yorker cartoons. The articles are great, but Steve really enjoys flipping through the magazine as soon as it arrives to check out the witty (sometimes too intelligent for us) cartoons. This one about Joey is our favorite.



19) Lego-lover. Steve home teaches a family with an eight year old named Atticus (coolest kid), and they bond over lego forts, ships, castles, planes, etc. It's pretty fun to watch when I've been able to tag along. You're never too old for legos.

20) "Half-a-piece." Do you want a whole piece or half of a piece? No matter what kind of gum, Steve chews one half at a time. Favorite flavor: Trident Watermelon Twist.



21) Hates melted cheese. It's a texture thing. I love grilled cheese sandwiches with tomato soup - two cardinal culinary sins in the book of Steve. I console myself with more pineapple.




22) Piano player. He plays the piano on a regular basis and I can never get enough. Mostly musicals, but that's perfect since we both love musicals.



23) Kindle vs. iPod? KINDLE. He prefers reading books to listening to music any day. The only time he listens to music is when we're in the car together and I have control of the radio. When he's in a car by himself? A book on CD keeps him company. I suppose in keeping with #3 listed above, I should note that Steve doesn't own either, but I have both. In the three plus years I've known Steve he's never touched my iPod. Since obtaining a kindle at Christmas, Steve uses it more than I do.


24) German historian. Well, maybe not historian, but German history is his current fascination (again, as evidenced by our temporary library housed in our bookshelf).


25) Quick to apologize/forgive. Even when he shouldn't be the one stepping up to that difficult plate, he does: quickly and sincerely.


26) Has a watch, but doesn't wear it. Besides using his cell phone to make phone calls, it also serves as his primary method to tell the time.


27) Creative cat. He leaves thoughtful notes and gestures for me on a regular basis, but Valentine's Day last year was totally great. I worked that night until 8pm, which meant that I had the car (we only had one at the time) and Steve had no way to get anywhere to buy flowers like many husbands do for their wives. What did I come home to? A dozen lego palm trees that Steve put together and meticulously arranged on the dining table surrounding a card. He's given me beautiful bouquets of fresh flowers, but I'll never forget the lego palm trees.




28) Identity crisis. Steve loses his BuckID on a regular basis - almost daily. It's becoming a routine that I am accustomed to, and it usually goes something like this: "Shoot! I can't find my BuckID! Kristen, have you seen it anywhere?" Panic ensues for 5 minutes. BuckID jumps out from one of its usual hiding spots and heart rates drop to normal levels. It's like clockwork.


29) Happy as a clam. We all have ups and downs, but it is so refreshing how happy Steve is on a regular basis. It's just who he is, and it's contagious.


So there's the profile - 29 things about my best friend.

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

The Bump

I finally have a baby bump...


It took 7 months and 1 week to get to this point, but there it is.

I hit 8 months next week - only 2 more to go until our wee one arrives.

We can't wait.


Sunday, January 15, 2012

Quality Time

Holidays = Quality time with family
We're a little behind with this recap of the holidays, but here it goes:

We headed to Utah on the 9th in order to be there for a special occasion on December 10th - a surprise birthday party for my grandmother, who turned 90 years old. The ENTIRE family was there, plus lots of good friends. This never happens. To explain how big this was, I finally met two cousins who I've never met...I'm 27, they are in their mid and early-20s. Despite the progress, I still have one cousin who I've never met. One of these days...

Here's the Irvine crew, minus Natalia, with my Grandma Chary.

Happy birthday, Grandma!

Parties last a few hours, but memories/photos last much longer. Steve was assigned photo duty for part of the party, and captured every person/couple that came to the party in the following pose:




Because we got to Utah so early, there was still lots of work to be done before the holiday merriment took over. Nathan and I with our computers - technological analysis for him, Ph.D. applications for me.



Trip to the Logan temple with Steve's family - it was a freezing cold night, but really nice to be together.



Our much anticipated visit to Doodlebug Preschool to see Miss Sara in action. We caught her on the day of her Christmas party - Polar Express pj party. We love what she's done with her preschool, and it was really fun for Steve and Sara to re-live some of the Taiwan kindergarten madness.



I have a sneaking suspicion that our little one might turn into a bookworm...we may need to invest in Sara's awesome library design wherever we end up come summertime.



We were lucky enough to spend an afternoon with Steve's aunt, Jamie, who kindly walked through Target with us, aisle by aisle, to tell us what we actually need for baby instead of what you think you need. Best outing ever. We got to spend a couple minutes with some of her family before we had to head out.




Steve and Dax on the drive up to Hardware Ranch to check out the elk.





Checking out the elk.




Getting ready to hunt the elk?



A big thanks to Miss Katie Van Ausdal for inviting us to attend Music and the Spoken Word with her to enjoy the Christmas concert put on by the Tabernacle choir with Jane Seymour and Nathan Gunn.
Loved it!


A couple more pictures from the baby shower.
Here we have Steve and Juli - second cousins and really good friends. Juli is due in February, and we're excited to have little ones running around that will be one month apart, just like Steve and Juli are.



Like mother, like daughter...
If I'm half the mother that my mom has been to me, Ainsley Jane will be a very lucky lady.


Sharing dessert at The Bakery (Gourmandise)...let me repeat... THE bakery - with Jon and Sarah Casper after the Mannheim Steamroller concert. Loved the music, loved the food, and especially loved the company after the show.




Before the concert started, we walked around temple square and stopped in at the Joseph Smith Memorial Building to get warm. It's still weird to think that I worked there, but as always, it was as beautiful as ever.




Steve was practicing with the new camera that Santa brought us for Christmas.
Not too shabby, eh?



We spent Christmas in Logan with Steve's family this year, and here we have the Nesbit's playing around with some colorful shapes.



I love this picture of Julie and Derrall -- I have the best in-laws!




The Irvine family Christmas party took place after Christmas, and we're glad we got to be there before flying home to Ohio the next day.

One of my favorite parts is hearing my dad and Karen talk about memories they have of my extended family members who were alive when I was really young, but who I don't remember much about, except for hearing these stories.



A few of Karen and Paul's grandkids - they keep getting cuter and cuter.




Stevens family



Part of the Irvine family



It was a really great holiday season.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Best Of...

Many of you already know this, but for those of you who don't know...



We're having a baby!



We have been keeping our fun news off of the internet because there were lots of people that we wanted to tell, but in a unique and personal way, and in our own time. With news this exciting, it was way more fun to spread it out over months and get fresh reactions each time. The blog and facebook (especially the latter) would have ruined our plans....hence the silence. However, while we were in Utah over the holidays, we were able to see/tell the final three people we were waiting to tell in person - Daniel, Camille, and Olivia - so now we're going to elaborate on how we shared the news with friends and family. The following documentation is my "best of" list for the announcement/reactions.




The very best have to be the times that we got to share the news in person. These were few seeing as we live in Ohio, but they are gems!



Telling my parentals:

[September]



They visited Russia earlier this year, so we thought a Matryoshka theme would be fitting. I used four nesting dolls and started with my grandmother's birthday, then my mom's, then mine, with the announcement wrapped up inside the smallest doll. My mom had to guess what each date represented (she passed with flying colors) before she could open the doll.



The slip of paper is an inside joke I've had going with my dad for years, so those aren't actually names we considered, but my parents loved the announcement. The date is slightly off as well - baby Adams is due to arrive on 24 March 2012.



I can't wait to see my parents as grandparents - they will be amazing!



To go along with the announcement, I made my parents this certificate. If you received our Christmas letter, this is the promotion I was referring to - hopefully it made sense. This will be the first grandchild for my parents, so we figured we'd go all out with the certificate.



Next up: telling Uncle Joey.
[October]




We invited him over for dinner (I think), but it was really all about the dessert - a scrumptious chocolate cake with the best frosting/icing I've ever tasted.



Joe also received a promotion, as you can see:



It took him no time at all to figure out our happy news. His reaction was priceless, even considering he'd have to convert if he really wanted to become a godfather. =) We had lots of fun that night calling fellow Berhaners to announce another addition to the next Taiwan generation (ours is baby #3 in that group).





Final in-person announcement - telling Liz Weinberg, one of my dearest roommates from BYU:
[November]




We were fortunate to meet up with the Weinbergs over Thanksgiving weekend in NYC, and we had a delightful Thai dinner together. Liz was thrilled, and I was so happy I got to share the news with her in person!



Next up on the "best of" category list - those we told over the phone and through the mail.



If I had actual awards to give out for the best responses, they would have to go to Penny Yarbrough and Ann Odom - hands down.



First up: Penn.
[October]




This picture should look familiar to many of you - including Penn. I sent this to her (and others) in the mail with a note on the back saying only, "We have an announcement to make!" Short and sweet, but totally worth the wait to have it arrive in the mail as a surprise. I will never forget the phone conversation we had when she received it...one of those "hot of the press" moments.



Ann Odom also needs to be mentioned due to the timing of the announcement. I won't go into all the details, but I sent a rather facetious text to her that arrived at the perfect moment, which truly can only be described in person. I was planning on telling her the same way I told Penn, but then randomly felt an urge one particular night to just tell her right away via text. Her explanation of the events made the timing/spontaneity crystal clear. =)


So those are the announcements that made the "best of" list, and the following pictures are some additional pieces of the puzzle that you may or may not be wondering about.




We found out at the beginning of November that we are having a girl! This is how we told our fellow temple workers on the Saturday afternoon shift - an offering of sugar cookies covered with pink sprinkles. My days serving in the temple with Steve are numbered, but I was still excited to share the news with the great friends we've made there.





As soon as we found it was a girl, we immediately knew her name:


Ainsley Jane Adams



Unique. Classy. Scottish.



My parents sent flowers the day after we found out the gender, and I was welcomed into the world of grandparenthood when I called to thank my mom for sending the beautiful flowers, and received the following reply, "the flowers aren't for you - they're for Ainsley." Awesome. That cracked me up.


The last two pictures are from the baby shower that Jamie Benich and Steve's mom threw for us over the holidays. Steve and I got to spend an evening surrounded by family, as well as Penn, Ann, and Savannah. I'm so glad these three could make it!





We received so many generous gifts from those who came, and we're so grateful for all the love and support we felt. Even though family is very far these days, we wanted to put up a picture of this gift from Christie Hardey because it perfectly captures how we feel. We're in Ohio, my parents are in Utah, and Steve's are now living in Peru, but when it comes to family, distance doesn't matter.




So there it is.



Ainsley Jane Adams - coming our way on 24 March 2012!

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Bookworm

I married a bookworm...
Part I




Part II




Part III



A non-fiction-loving bookworm.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Diabetes


It's November.

It's also Diabetes Awareness Month.


I've never done much to spread information about diabetes besides answering questions people ask me. That's pretty lame considering I've had diabetes my entire life (I was diagnosed at 18 months). I really love answering questions by the way, but since I can't read minds, I don't know who has questions in the first place.


My friend, Erin C., is an amazing advocate for diabetes awareness. Since she blogs regularly (I don't), posts fb updates frequently (I don't), and does online research about advancements (I don't), she's inspired me to at least share a little about the disease, and my experience living with it. Here are the main points to tell my story:


1. I have Type I Diabetes. This is different from Type II. I'm not going to discuss Type II at all since I'm not an expert on it. Type I used to be called Juvenile On-set diabetes because they saw it crop up in young patients. That's a misnomer these days, and rarely used anymore, since young children fall into both categories of diabetes - type I and type II.


2. Type I Diabetes is an auto-immune disease. If you don't know what that means, in a nutshell, my own immune system attacked my own body.


Case in point: How I landed this disease.

I was 18 months when I was diagnosed, and the precursor to my problem started when I was exposed to the measles (yes, my parents were on top of vaccinations!). The measles antibody and the Islets of Langerhans - regions in the pancreas responsible for hormone production - look very similar. Do you see where I'm going here? My own immune system mistook my own cells - the beta cells that produce insulin (a hormone) inside the Islets of Langerhans - for the measles they were combating, and started to attack and destroy my own system, as well as the foreign bodies. No beta cells? No insulin. No insulin? No way to transport the glucose (from the food you eat) in the bloodstream into the actual cells, thereby depriving cells of energy and resulting in excessive amounts of sugar in the bloodstream.



3. You cannot get Type I Diabetes by eating too much sugar or by not exercising. This is a MYTH! Type II is a different story. Eating too many Snickers bars is not going to cause the reaction I mentioned above.


4. Currently, there is no cure for Type I Diabetes, however, there are technologies that make it one of the best illnesses to live with and still maintain a normal life - insulin pumps, continuous glucose monitors, insulin pens, etc. The following picture is sort of what my stomach looks like, only mine is less curvy, much whiter and also has scar tissue. =)



A) Minimed Insulin Pump

B) Pump insertion site (changed every 3-4 days)

C) Continuous Glucose Monitor (CGM) sensor (changed every 3-6 days)

D) CGM receiver (relays information to the insulin pump)


5. For Type I diabetics, insulin must be injected into the body by means of a syringe or an insulin pump. You cannot take an oral form of the medication (again, that's Type II stuff). I use an insulin pump - it's my third arm. I wear it 24/7 except when I shower or scuba dive. I've been on a pump since I was twelve.

6. I never go anywhere without my blood glucose meter. I use this to test my sugars (finger pricks) throughout the day to see how I'm doing, i.e. whether my sugars are too high, too low, or in the normal range. And what is the normal range? 80-120 mg/dl. On average, I test my blood eight times a day.



7. Aside from my pump and my meter, I always have sugar on me in the form of juice, glucose tablets (the two best sources for diabetics), or candy (not the best source because candy causes sugars to spike and then crash, but in a jam, it gets the job done).



8. My parents and Steve are the people who truly understand from experience how serious high and low blood sugars can be. I am literally not myself if my sugars go too high or too low. Extreme highs are bad, but extreme lows are incredibly dangerous if not treated immediately. Here are the symptoms (mine, at least) in case you come across a diabetic acting funny:


High: I cannot concentrate. My brain cannot respond to tasks that are normally easy. Ask me to figure out a complex equation? Impossible - I won't be able to do it. I'm hungry. I'm very thirsty. I don't move as quickly as I normally do. I'm really tired, and thanks to all the water I have to drink, I have to pee a lot too. This is the primary symptom that my mom noticed that made her aware something might be wrong with me when I was still in diapers. Solution: take insulin.


Low: I shake. I sweat. My eyes glaze over and you could be carrying on a conversation with me, but I will have no idea what you said. I don't respond quickly. I'm tired. I have no energy. Unfortunately, and my mother can attest to this, my inability to function well means that I can't swallow very easily. I remember a number of occasions when my mom had to raise her voice to get my attention while I was sitting on the countertop right in front of her while she was helping me to swallow sugar since I couldn't do it on my own. It's usually low blood sugar reactions that freak people out. Luckily, I catch myself 95% of the time before it becomes a crisis, but there have been times when I've needed others' help. Solution: Get any source of sugar into me as fast as possible.


9. Insurance is absolutely necessary. Without insurance, diabetes cannot be managed properly. Without proper management, that's when you deal with loss of eyesight, kidney failure, heart disease, amputation and all sorts of complications that then require huge sums of money that burden taxpayers. I love it when people complain about Obamacare. I love it when they only see the bad and refuse to acknowledge the good (both exist). I really wish they'd do some in-depth research to learn about dealing with insurance while having a "pre-existing condition." Obamacare will radically alter these difficulties, and I am grateful for that. Good insurance is vital.

The numbers (that I deal with, though each diabetic is different) speak for themselves.


Supplies (costs per year without insurance):
Insulin: $5,400
Strips: $3,504
Pump insertion sites: $1,040
Pump reservoirs: $270
CGM sensors: $1,820


One-time costs:
Meter: $65
Insulin pump: $6,000
CGM receiver: $1,300

I'm not including the cost for doctor's visits and lab work that is required - I don't have the numbers nearby....

Total: just shy of $20,000 including one-time fees for equipment, $12,000 per year if you only include costs for on-going care.

There are many other diseases that fall under the label of "pre-existing conditions" and I'm sure those diseases have high costs of their own. Like I said, good insurance is what keeps me going.


10. Diabetes is manageable! I've never felt that I wasn't a normal person, or that I couldn't do exactly the same things all of my friends were doing just because I have diabetes. If you are responsible and take care of yourself, you can lead a very healthy lifestyle and do everything you want/dream to do. My parents always reminded me growing up that others had it far worse than I did - others had diseases that were much more devastating than diabetes. I thank them for the perspective they drilled into me.


And there you have it. This is probably way more information than you've ever cared to know about Type I Diabetes, but hopefully it will come in handy some day if you ever come across someone with this disease that needs your help, or at least some understanding.


Happy November.






Thursday, October 27, 2011

Irish and Awesome

And to think that I spent years attempting the very same, only with my feet...



Simply amazing (though Irish music is way cooler).